Cold, shriveled… lifeless. Can you remember what it used to feel like? That burning desire you used to feel in your groin that made you want to do things? But not just things –fulfilling things. Things that make you feel alive. Things that give you a raging hard-on wanting more.

Let’s make life exciting again.

Wouldn’t it be great if you could feel that every day? Jump out of bed with a hard-on ready to motorboat whatever comes your way. Can life be that awesome?

The answer is yes, but there’s some things you must understand first.

Always Leave Wanting More

Inside every man is the need for arousal. It is a basic desire that drives us to do things. When things suck we try to do things that make us feel good. When we are too aroused we seek to lower it by doing relaxing things. The key point here is we all strive to maintain a certain level of arousal.

What the law of arousal means is that we can’t be aroused 100% of the time. This establishes a critical rule we must follow if we want to get a hard-on for life.

Always leave wanting more.

A key to getting a hard-on for life is to always leave wanting more. You want to be excited to come back tomorrow. You want to look forward to something every day.

Leaving wanting more is as much foreplay for your brain as it is self-control.

If you have nothing to be excited about then you need to find better sources of arousal.

The best sources of arousal are the things we find engaging, challenging, exciting, and freeing. Some sources of arousal appear to be these things but ultimately fail miserably at being freeing by actually being a trap, like drugs. Nature on the other hand is an excellent source.

Be Horny With Hope

Out of fear and lack of confidence some men avoid good things. This usually means they don’t feel deserving.

You can still be hopeful when you feel undeserving, but it feels more like wishful thinking than actual hope. In other words, when you feel undeserving your hope has no power and you won’t take action.

An enemy of hope is feeling stuck. There are many ways for men to feel stuck, but perhaps the worst is when he is stuck in his identity.

Many men build their lives around one thing only to die on the inside when it is taken away. This is not resilient behavior, it’s foolish. You are not a machine designed to do just one thing. You are the sum of the things you choose to do and as you age that sum changes.

Having multiple things apart of your identity gives men more sources of inspiration, which gives them more hope. So have a bag full of things to explore. Be excited about each one and explore them further. Know you are the sum total of the things you do.

Being horney with hope means you believe good things are headed your way and are ready to act on them.

You already have something to be excited and hopeful about. Take a moment to reflect on it.

Can you feel it yet? That raging hard-on for life?

If you are horny with hope and always leave wanting more, you feel it.

If not, keep exploring. Find things to be hopeful about, find better sources of arousal, and always leave wanting more.