It’s true! A penis sleeve will instantly increase your length and girth, allowing you to reach deeper and fill your woman further.
All you have to do is slide one on to instantly transform your tadpole into the deep sea submarine you and your gal have secretly desired.
But be careful. Sleeves are powerful weapons of pleasure and like all weapons can be misused -and not all women are ready for one.
But if you stick around and complete this guide, you’ll be closer to bringing one to bed and delivering her the goods.
To start this guide off, let’s cover why you would use a sleeve.
- 1 So, Why Sleeves?
- 2 The Problem
- 3 Features of Sleeves
- 4 Types of Materials Used
- 5 Length or Girth
- 6 Pleasure or Performance
- 7 Clear or Realistic
- 8 If You Want to But She Isn’t Sure
- 9 Here’s How to Convince Her
- 10 Reasons She Says No
- 11 Before You Start You Must Pre-Game
- 12 Start With Foreplay
- 13 Cleaning & Storage
- 14 More Resources
So, Why Sleeves?
Also known as penis extenders or enlargers, these toys offer some enjoyable benefits.
- “Huge in a hurry”, as Traz Rhino likes to say.
- Add girth or length or both
- Can open up new positions, that only larger sizes allow.
- Completely new orgasm -most orgasms aren’t even from penetration, but this will be!
- Adds variety to sex life, and that keeps couples together.
- Longer deeper thrusts -aka travel time.
For more reasons, see this guide on how sleeves compare to other enhancement solutions.
It’s no surprise penis’s come in different lengths and girths. This means someone with a smaller-than-average girth won’t fit an above-average sleeve that well.
When a sleeve doesn’t fit well the comfort and pleasure for both are compromised. When that result is compared to others orgasmic experiences, then people get upset and leave terrible reviews.
So make sure you check the measurements and or watch any product videos to make sure it’ll fit before you buy, because some sleeves are made for different sizes.
The good news is that most are designed to be stretchy and conform to the size of your penis. Some even include a solid insert that can fill the extra space in front of your penis should space exist.
There’s even a type that has an insert you size yourself to create the perfect fit. This style would be from Traz, and you can learn more about it in the guide I linked to above.
You should know that different types offer different benefits, and we’ll cover some that are secured to your nuts, waist, and good ol’ suction.
Features of Sleeves
These are the general features available. Each offers a unique benefit and some sleeves come fully loaded with a few of them.
Just as the name suggests, this type only covers a fraction of the penis, providing thicker girth. They often come with textures.
These can be full sized or partial fitting, providing a range of penetration that will deliver pleasurable vibrations.
These penis sleeves have textures and features that will surprise your love when you show her what it feels like.
For when the situation calls for something a bit more familiar in feeling -but at the same time not because you’ll be bigger.
Some sleeves actually double as a masturbator. It’s 2 for 1! Inside there are pleasurable ribs and textures that offer way more stimulation for you.
These come in a variety of lengths and realism, but are distinguished in that they are extra secured with a ring that goes around your nuts, which means it will stay on better during harder use.
Types of Materials Used
- Platinum Silicon
- Skin safe rubber
The cheaper toys can contain phlates and latex, and should be avoided. These are typically available on public marketplaces where sellers products are not appropriately checked for quality.
To play it safe, I recommend buying here, where you can conveniently see the materials and dimensions of every sleeve available.
They make it a point to sell the best ones, with the best materials.
Length or Girth
You can get one that is specifically designed to increase your thickness, or go with one that adds 1-3 inches extra in length.
Or, you can get a substantial amount of both.
This kit actually gives you a little bit of everything, which isn’t a bad idea to try.
Girth is more stimulating than length to most women, and generally easier to use. Length will require her to be loosened up and excited to use it to it’s full extent.
Fun fact: vagina’s can expand up to 200% when aroused, and are on average 3-4 inches long. Science is telling us something, isn’t it?
Pleasure or Performance
This is where the power of sleeves comes into play – in prolonging sex or igniting it. It’s the difference of being the master over your penis or losing all control.
And that power rests in your’s (or maybe her’s) hands.
So what will it be? If you want more control over your orgasm and to last longer, then a denser sleeve that is light on stimulating features will be for you.
This means no vibrator or pleasure rings. Without these stimulating features you’ll be able to extend play-time far longer than before, which means more fun for her.
So when she’s the mission, that’s your best bet.
On the flip-side, if you want to achieve climax quicker then a sleeve that doubles as a masturbator is a worthy weapon of choice.
Being able to choose between pleasure and performance means you can have a sleeve for either occasion.
Clear or Realistic
There’s a fork in the road, and one leads you to a realistic looking sleeve and the other to a see-through one.
You should let your woman decide on this one.
Yours may want something that looks real, or prefer being able to of see you inside the sleeve, which can be a turn on for her.
She may even want one that has interesting textures.
If there is no preference, then clear is a great choice. You can always go from there if interest takes hold.
If You Want to But She Isn’t Sure
Before you surprise your woman with one of these you need to make sure it’s cool with her.
After-all, it’s just as much her decision as what goes inside her as it is what your member dives into. She might not be cool with it.
First you might have to convince her to let you use one.
Here’s How to Convince Her
Even though you have a pair between your legs, sometimes the balls not in your court.
For situations like these we must use ninja psychology tactics.
Or maybe you just have to ask her -either way works if she’s open. Let’s just go ahead and cover them both. You can decide which way to try.
The Key is to Use Her Words
Women always say the same thing when they want to try something in bed.
It goes something like this…
“There are some things I’d like to try with you”,
too which you irresistibly reply, “OK!”
And it’s irresistible because it gets your mind thinking of all the great new things you get to do to her.
Remember, using her words is an essential shortcut to getting what you want out of sex.
Pay attention to the things she says in bed, and the ways she gets you in it, and use them to your advantage.
Reasons She Says No
The reason she says no is always about her. In some form it will have to deal with how she wants to continue viewing sex.
You and her, forever. Plain pure vanilla.
If she takes something else then does that will that ruin your relationship? Could that be some sort of divide between you. These are the things she thinks about.
If she views sex as something to be experienced, experimented with, and enjoyed then she’ll say yes.
But if she is regular ol’ vanilla then you are going to have to play the long game, and slowly work her over to your side.
You do this by using her words, and helping her break down the walls she’s built with sex.
But guys, some women simply won’t ever, and you should be prepared for that.
Don’t be mad about it. Just find something she is willing to try with you.
If all lights are go and cockpit is sealed for takeoff, then keep reading. The next step is important.
Before You Start You Must Pre-Game
It’s christmas day for your cucumber, so you should make opening your new toy a shared experience.
By this I mean physically opening the toy you received in the mail, and gauging her reactions.
This is an opportune time to talk about any reservations either of you have and work out any tension before you get busy.
If you don’t then it might get funny.
Reassure her this is just something fun to try; that you are turned on and excited to try something new with her because she’s so sexy.
The best reaction you could ask for? She takes that thing out and playfully sticks it in her mouth.
Start With Foreplay
The topic of this section: Foreplay.
And lot’s of it!
You need to get busy doing the things she likes -but you need to add a creative edge to it. A little extra compared to what you normally do.
She’ll enjoy it much more if you go a little farther than normal by doing things you normally don’t do.
And if things ever get uncomfortable then you can both laugh about it and make a playful comment about trying again. That’ll take the edge off.
Depending on the type of lube, this can be a little, or a lot.
Liquid lubes go a long way, while creams take more.
Some lubes are not good for sleeves, and can interact with them chemically. For instance, older or traditional lubes you buy in store can be the worst offenders.
Warming or cooling lubes can create pleasurable sensations when combined with a sleeve. These are a good solution if you need a little more help getting the sleeve inserted.
For your first time, a simple water based lube is enough. These are the most widely recommended among sex toy experts due to the safety on skin and compatibility with toys.
The Exact Steps
- Apply lube to your penis
- Slide on the sleeve over your penis
- Apply lube to head and shaft of the sleeve
- Apply a little to her for easier insertion
The amount of lube isn’t scientific, but most people agree it is more than usual, which makes sense, right?
Hopefully by this point you’ve both reached new sexual peaks and had a great time.
If not, then don’t worry.
If she didn’t enjoy it then maybe you need to use more foreplay, or give her more control next time. Sometimes all it takes is her to be in a special mood.
Communicate with her to find out how next time can be better.
Whatever you do don’t swear it off forever after a failed first time. Toys are meant to be enjoyed and played with.
Cleaning & Storage
Because every toy is made with different materials, there is no single perfectly acceptable way to clean a toy. Where it’s safe to use warm water and antibacterial soap with some materials, it’s not with others.
Likewise, where it’s OK to use corn starch to protect a sleeve, it isn’t recommended for some materials.
The simplest advice you can follow on this, without having to become an expert on adult toy materials, is to follow the toys instructions.
The quality ones will come with a user-guide that tells you what materials are used and how to properly clean.
When storing, be sure to keep them separate, as they can chemically react with each-other and dissolve into soup -ruining them entirely.
And you can’t wear soup!
- Women prefer girth over length – https://www.livescience.com/46141-penis-size-girth.html
- Vagina’s can expand 200% – https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/owning-pink/201104/15-crazy-things-about-lady-parts
- As an implant – http://www.inquisitr.com/2904889/penis-enlargement-man-with-3-inch-penis-gets-new-silicone-implant-sleeve-and-bigger-penis/
- Another type of sleeve, but only for masturbation – http://www.vice.com/read/masturbation-sleeve-best-new-male-sex-toy
- All about personal lubricants – http://www.holisticwisdom.com/article_sex_lubricants_massage_oils.htm
- Sex toys and your safety – https://health.usnews.com/health-news/health-wellness/articles/2014/03/27/a-guide-to-sex-toy-safety
- Learn more about sex toys – https://health.howstuffworks.com/sexual-health/sexuality/sex-toys-dictionary.htm
- If she experiences burning afterwards – http://dangerouslilly.com/2016/08/tips-for-dealing-with-the-burn-of-a-toxic-sex-toy-or-bad-lube/